Life of Paul David Tolmie
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Although Paul has continued with work after retireing back in 2012, he still has some regrets. “I could have stayed; my eldest child… with ADHD, it was hard to handle, it made it hard for my wife to handle him,“ “The best way of coping with it is not medication it’s actually keeping yourself busy. Got to be busy, got to be doing something all the time. That’s my… my coping mechanism I think.”